Xan THE Man

My son just may, just may be the sweetest 18 year-old male there is. Now mind you I am about to gush over this boy so be prepared. He was just gone this weekend and while away called me regularly to tell me he loves me and he misses me. He even sent me a text thanking me for always being there for him. Note: he was with his father for the weekend – no telling what took place to warrant that text. Even so, I will take it because regardless I know he means it.

We are in his final year of high school and I can actually say high school has been a breeze. Not that we haven’t had out moments about grades but that’s it – he has not caused me an ounce of worry otherwise. He’s been responsible and for the most part (sometimes he needs reminding) respectful. I have many a friend who is anxious to see their son leave for college. Tense times. I can’t say this.

I am very anxious for Xan (and Audrey too) to go and experience college. It is such an important, vital time in their lives. And I am anxious for what that means for me – I have a whole new world opening up for me. But even as I type this, even with the excitement I have, I get choked up. It will be hard to see him (and her) leave. I am a fortunate mother – my children actually like me and I consider them two of my best friends.

This morning I woke up and came out to start the coffee and there was a box of doughnuts sitting on the counter. Xan was sitting at the computer and I just looked at him and smiled. He got himself up early, went to Dunkin Donuts and had Audrey’s favorites for her and 2 special doughnuts for me. He loves the women in his life and likes to show it – preferably through food gestures. I ask you, is this not so sweet of him?

I can go on and on – how there are always hugs, and kisses. How he is always saying I love you and you are beautiful. And not just to me but to Audrey too. He really may be the sweetest 18 year-old male there is.

Now if only he could pick his towel up off the floor . . . . . . . . .

I love you Alexander Faherty Bowman! Thank you for being such a wonderful son!